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Our Complicity in Charleston

It’s an inflammatory thing to call someone a racist, and we probably don’t have a shared understanding of what a racist is; but if you are a white person reading this post, you are probably a racist.

Please keep reading.

As a white male, I know the immediate response to the accusation of racism is to quickly categorize all the ways we are not:  we have friends of all races and cultures, we treat everyone the same, we own a Chris Rock dvd, etc.  But,  set aside your defensiveness for a moment and hear me out.

Racism is a human-created evil that begins with one race or culture believing it is superior to others, and then using the power structure to establish and perpetuate that belief.  For example, whites in America justified enslaving Africans by saying they weren’t as intelligent.  Then whites, who had the power, limited African-Americans’ access to education, so that they would continue to appear to be less intelligent, to justify their continued enslavement.  This is only the most obvious example:  a close look at most of the structures of our society (housing policies, location of highways, etc.) shows a perpetuation of self-justified oppression.

And once evil has a foothold, it doesn’t need a lot of help to grow and entrench itself.  It’s like a canal:  once the opening is made to the river where it can draw water from, the water just flows down the canal on its own.

And that is where we find ourselves today:  somewhere far down the canal, miles back from where some people ( scared and greedy, probably, who didn’t trust in God’s abundance for all) deliberately carved a path out of the river of life, where they believed they could ensure prosperity for themselves at the expense of others.  We were born into a boat on this canal, and that isn’t our fault, but as soon we became aware that this isn’t the river of life, and we didn’t begin doing the hard work of carving a path back to the river to prevent the canal from going any farther; we became complicit in its perpetuation.

So, what is that hard work?  Racism thrives on self-deception, so it begins with honesty.  If you actually do have deep relationships with people of color, get to a place where those friends can share painful truths with you.  In your relationships with other whites, do not permit untruths to go unchallenged:  why is a crime or act of violence committed by a white person always “an isolated incident”, but any wrongdoing by a person of color is demonstrative of true nature of millions of people?

Honesty is just the beginning – it must then move us to action.  We aren’t responsible for how and where we found ourselves in this world, but we are responsible for how we leave it for the next generation.

I learned a long time ago that we can be one of three things:  an active racist who engages in actions to keep other races oppressed; an active anti-racist who engages in actions to help liberate the oppressed; or a passive racist, who does nothing and allows racism to perpetuate.  There is no fourth option of being a passive anti-racist.  To do nothing, to throw up your hands and say there is nothing you can do, is to allow society to continue to flow farther from life as God intended it.

And that makes you a racist.

So let’ s drift no further, but get out of the boat, that we might find our way back to what God intended, instead of what fearful man created.

If you still feel defensive, ask yourself what you are doing to actively end racism.  If you are actually doing something, invite a friend to join you in that work.  If you aren’t then this message was for you.

Commencement

Next week Oxford Area High School will be holding its commencement ceremony, better known as graduation. Commencement and graduation are interchangeable in this instance, even though one means beginning and the other means ending, because graduation is both. In fact, every ending is a beginning.
And yet…
And yet, we come to places in our lives where we want to see new life, new growth, but we refuse to let anything end so that new growth can begin. We believe we can have it all. We use our DVR’s to record more television than we can possibly watch in a year, let alone a week. We schedule another activity for the kids, then complain that we don’t do enough as a family, so we add a family activity to the list, then freak out when our kids fall behind in their schoolwork.
Life is not about having it all: it is about having all that matters. Does your busy schedule serve you by giving you the fulfilling life you want, or are you just serving your busy schedule?
Jesus Christ came that we might truly live, and that life comes with death. First and foremost, it comes with his death on the cross. But it also comes with us choosing to let parts of our lives die that prevent us from experiencing Life with a capital L. Jesus says, “Very truly I tell you, unless a grain of wheat falls in to the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.” (John 12:24)
What seeds are you refusing to let go of, that are keeping you from the real abundance that Jesus has for you?

Welcome, to Oxford United Methodist Church

18 Addison Street, Oxford, PA 19363   610-932-9698

Thanks for stopping by to take a look around.  The website is still in its infant stage, but there are links to crafter information, and to giving to the church online.  Here’s a current schedule for upcoming events:

Tuesday, May 19:  Finance Committee at 7:00pm

Harvest Fair Planning Meeting at 7:30pm

Wednesday, May 20:  Missions Committee at 6:30pm

Senior Choir at 7:30pm

Thursday, May 21:  Softball Game at 6:30pm (at Harmony Park)

Friday, May 22:  Breakfast Prep at 9:00am

Saturday, May 23:  Buffet Breakfast from 7-10am (Adults- $6, Kids 3-10 – $3, Under 3 – Free)

Sunday, May 24:  Informal Worship, with Holy Communion

at   8:30am

Sunday School for all ages at 9:45am

Traditional Worship at 10:55am

Behold, The Pastor Is Making All Things New(er)!

If you look to your left, you’ll see the promised website updates happened sooner than expected.  There is some crafter information available for the Harvest Fair, and a donation button for you to give to God through the church.

(But, Pastor, can the site look, you know, a little nicer?  Like with pictures, and stuff?)

That’s next, I hope.

In the meantime, let’s give our praise to the One who truly makes all things new, the One who makes it possible to start each day with hope for ourselves, for those we love, for our relationships with one another.  Let us give thanks and praise this day to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!

No one came to this page today without some brokenness, even if you’re having a great day.  Jesus Christ offers healing to you, that you might be made whole, that you might share the wholeness of his love with others.

So, pray this prayer:  Great God of Heaven and Earth, I thank you for this day, and every day you give me to enjoy your creation, and to discover your Son within all those I encounter.  I confess that I am often blinded by my fears to that love you offer.  I have allowed my fears to box me in, and I have bruised myself, crashing into the walls I have created.  Free me, God, for joyful obedience.  May the power of your Son’s love bring new life where I only see death.  And by your Spirit guide me to places of real joy and real fellowship.  Amen.

So, here’s what’s on tap for you at OUMC:

Thursday, May 7 at 7:00pm:  We are hosting the National Day of Prayer Service in our Fellowship Hall.

Friday, May 8 at 6:30pm:   Softball game at the A.A. fields.

Saturday, May 9 from 10am to 2pm:  Matthew Terry is having a fundraiser for his American Music Abroad trip.  A silent auction of jewelry and some other items, plus several vendors will be there, with a portion of their proceeds going to Matthew’s trip.

Saturday, May 9:  Youth Spaghetti Dinner is POSTPONED.

Sunday, May 10 at 8:30am:  Informal worship with Holy Communion

Sunday, May 10 at 9:45am:  Sunday School for all ages.

Sunday, May 10 at 10:55am:  Traditional Worship beginning with our monthly hymn sing, and featuring our Spirit Bells and our OUMC Band.

Monday,  May 11 at 6:30pm:   Softball game at the A.A. fields.

Tuesday, May 12 at 6:30pm :  Mother-Daughter Banquet

Slowly, But Surely

Happy Easter!  We are now in the Easter Season, celebrating the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.  During the Easter season, we see how the disciples came to a full understanding of Jesus as the Messiah – if you notice, they found the empty tomb puzzling, and even a little scary.  But, as Jesus appeared to them, slowly but surely all he had taught them before became clearer.

What is your understanding of Jesus Christ?  Is it clear to you how much he loves you?

Slowly, but surely, our website is moving along.  You’ll notice we added the United Methodist News Service feed, so there will always be a little something to see.

And don’t forget:  here’s our Sunday Schedule-

8:30 – Informal worship service, with Communion

9:45 – Sunday School for all ages, including adults.

10:55 – Traditional worship – this Sunday we have the hymn sing to begin the service!

18 Addison Street, Oxford, PA 19363